Yoni Massage
Embody your Divine Feminine
For women, embodying our divine feminine essence is essential to living a balanced and happy life, experiencing sexual satisfaction, and creating fulfilling intimate relationships.
Being in feminine energy is to live in harmony with the ebb and flow of life, trust and depend on others with an open heart, and honor our emotions with appropriate self-expression and healthy boundaries. Essential to embodying our feminine is trusting our intuition and the guidance it offers. Honoring the messages our body reliably conveys allows us to care for ourselves effectively while being a nurturing and powerful presence to others. When we remain open and listen to the tender, vulnerable parts of ourselves, we intuitively make choices aligned with our values and instinctively know how to identify and express our needs. We feel safe and supported while navigating the complexities of life and relationships, performing in our careers, and parenting.
Embodying our feminine energy allows women the freedom to surrender sexually while remaining empowered, because we know our own needs and limits and are not afraid to say “no.”
In a world that operates through masculine, action-oriented energy and the remnants of patriarchy, most women today are likewise accustomed to being in masculine energy. Having to work to support ourselves financially, raise children, and survive an increasingly stressful world, particularly as a single woman, reduces estrogen and increases testosterone. Not only have roles changed, so has our biology.
Many women, experience burn-out, hormone imbalance, loss of sex drive, and stress-related illness as a result of being out of balance hormonally, and have difficulties connecting with their partners or attract men who are in their feminine energy. When a woman is in her masculine energy, she has trouble falling in love and allowing herself to trust and rely on a man. As women, we need estrogen levels to be optimal in order to get turned on sexually and feel emotionally connected to a man.
Along with hormonal imbalance, disempowering beliefs about sex teach us to place our fulfillment in the hands of our partners, and that sexual satisfaction is found in relationships, not inside us.
When we don’t know what pleases us or how to feel safe receiving pleasure, even with a loving and emotionally present partner, we may struggle to show up authentically and ask for what we want. We engage from a sense of obligation or habit instead of consciously choosing what is our heart’s desire.
In my capacity as a sensual healer, I’ve both experienced and witnessed the blissful reunion with our sacred sensual self that happens when we are allowed to be our authentic self with a safe and loving guide.
Imagine what it would feel like to have an erotic experience focused exclusively on your own pleasure…that invited you to learn to receive pleasure & ask for what you want…
Yoni Massage & Sensual Self-Care Coaching
Yoni massage sessions are designed to meet your needs for physical touch, while allowing time and space for exploring fears, blockages to intimacy, and traumatic experiences that present obstacles to your ability to embody your authentic feminine power. Although much is accomplished by moving energy with intentional therapeutic touch, these sessions allow for emotional release and discussion as needed. Combining my knowledge of tantra, energy healing, and Gibson Integrated Attachment theory, we will create a yoni massage experience that allows you to open and connect with your divine feminine and embody your erotic power.
Think of yoni massage sessions as a form of goddess worship, a time for you to love being in your body just as you are, without expectations or demands.
Yoni massage: $250/60 min | $300 90 min
Yoni massage and tea: 2 hours: $350
Additional coaching with Danielle: $150/70 min. Packages available.
I started working with Danielle when I was diagnosed with an aggressive cancer and my marriage seemed to be falling apart. I needed to work with someone that understood how to use painful situations as an opportunity for growth. The integration of sex, intimacy, and spiritual healing have been an essential focus. By identifying my core wounds using her attachment theory tools, I was able to understand how trauma impacted my view of intimacy and security. She helped me and my husband see each other's inner child and use that to look for our shadow selves. When I went through the dark night of the soul, it unlocked a sexual potential and freedom that I had been hoping to reach in my lifetime.
Danielle started by identifying attachment styles and coping patterns in myself and my husband. I had developed anxious and avoidant behaviors to cope with feeling rejected, abandoned, and desperate for attention. By reexamining my childhood trauma, we were able to connect my experiences and behaviors with residual trauma, which affected my ability to be truly intimate with my husband and accept both of us for who we are.
The biggest challenge to this kind of work is being willing to deepen my self awareness. I was emitting a stressful, controlling, and dominant energy that blocked my ability to develop intimacy with myself and partner. I was making assumptions about what people were thinking, being judgemental, not truly listening, –being impatient, mistreating sex, and hating myself for not being able to put my feelings into perspective. Danielle was very strong and patient during some of my more hysterical moments.
When Danielle suggested that I would be able to transform my pain, I did not believe it was possible but the work we have done together has paid off. I'm in a great place today. At age 53 I have learned that I can love myself, that I am okay, that my abandonment anxiety does not need to control me, and that successful communication is possible with a little bit of love and compassion.