Yes. I work with individuals and couples of all genders, sexual orientations, and backgrounds—including trauma survivors, former and current sex workers, people of faith, seniors, and those navigating intimacy after loss, illness, divorce, or personal transformation.

The one requirement? A sincere commitment to personal responsibility. This work is generally not for self-help tourists or those seeking quick fixes. My clients are typically emotionally intelligent, self-aware, sensitive, and radically honest—even when it’s uncomfortable.

I especially love working with young adults seeking to break free from hook-up and sugar-baby cultures and learn how to build healthy, secure relationships in a world that rarely teaches, let alone models, these skills. See Work With Me for YA rates that apply to clients under 25 years old.

No. I do not offer massage or erotic bodywork of any kind outside couples massage classes, which are purely educational and teach EM: Erotic Mindfulness for Trauma Healing™.

My current coaching practice focuses on helping people identify and dismantle the beliefs that tell them they must sacrifice something sacred in themselves to get their survival needs met.

This may mean examining what they have learned to trade for love, sex, money, resources, or the feeling of belonging—and why such bargains can seem inevitable or necessary.

My work helps clients restore sovereignty, dignity, and the capacity for relational depth and authentic self-expression without fostering dependency of any kind.

Then you’re in the right place.

Readiness isn’t about perfection or even clarity—it’s about willingness. I’ve worked with plenty of people who felt scared, unsure, or skeptical at first. I’ve seen clients so traumatized they could barely speak. What matters is whether you're open to learning, unlearning, and taking full responsibility for your choices, emotions, and behavior.

Book a 30-min consultation if you want help figuring out next steps.

Yes—and I speak this language fluently.

Many of my clients are men who’ve struggled with porn addiction, compulsive behavior, or chronic reliance on sex workers. These are often surface-level manifestations of deeper wounds—ones I am equipped to help you identify and for which I require clients to take full responsibility.

In some cases, I will also require that you are seeing a licensed therapist or in a structured recovery program.

Working with me is not a way to avoid accountability but a path to self-governance and personal freedom, which are built on radical honesty and the willingness to do what it takes to change.

Yes, I work with current and former sex workers who want to understand their motivation for remaining in the industry, what they might be compromising to stay in it, and whether these compromises are acceptable.

For current workers, this may include helping you: create better boundaries; develop protocols for selecting clients aligned with your boundaries; find healthy ways to care for yourself and your body; and protect your mental, emotional, physical, and relational wellbeing while working.

For those interested in leaving the industry, I can help you build an exit strategy and refer you to resources in some cases.

For those who have already exited the industry, our work may be understanding the patterns and beliefs that kept you there, addressing the impact of sex work, and identifying the changes, both internal and external, you may need to make to rebuild a life free of self-compromise.

My role is not to tell you whether to stay or leave. It is to help you become clear about the choices you’re making, why you’re making them, and, more so, the cost of these choices on your mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

I am not a licensed therapist. I’m certified as a coach in Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, a professional educator with a Master’s Degree, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant™, and experienced teacher and mentor. My approach draws on decades of experience, evidence-based tools and practices for changing entrenched beliefs and destructive behavioral patterns.

If you require clinical diagnosis or treatment, please seek a licensed provider before contacting me. Many of my clients work with me and a therapist or medical professional simultaneously.

All individual coaching is offered virtually via video or phone.

For couples in San Diego and Orange County, I also offer in-person private classes and workshops in your home.

Those visiting the area may arrange a class or workshop in your hotel. Travel rates may apply.

I offer special rates for young adults under 25 as well as a discount on 3-session coaching packages. All packages are paid in full at the time of purchase.

Please inquire for special consideration if finances are a barrier.