With nearly two decades experience in the San Francisco Bay Area, Nevada, and, more recently, San Diego and Orange Counties, I've been blessed to do this sacred work with people from all over the world.

The brave and beautiful souls called to study with me are among all racial, cultural, religious, and professional demographics.

The only pre-requisite required is your readiness to embark on the journey toward self-actualization, with steadfast dedication, integrity, and commitment to staying with the process.

The willingness to take full responsibility for yourself is also essential to success. Spiritual anarchy isn't for lightweights!

My individual coaching sessions and erotic mindfulness classes are offered to both men and women, both online and in person.

Couples workshops are provided to any two people who identify as partners and are likewise equally dedicated to showing up wholeheartedly and committed to the work.

Most of my clients have experienced sexual trauma or emotional betrayal, whether as adults or children, ranging from incest to sexual assault to emotional abusive or cheating partners. Others are rediscovering themselves after divorce, death of a spouse, or major milestone. Most are seeking to heal unhealthy behaviors, such as porn addiction, substance abuse, chronic infidelity, insecure attachment, sex worker dependency/sex addiction, and intimacy challenges due to betrayal.

My approach ncorporates the emotional, psychological, and physical manifestations related to the above, such as ED, PE, numbness, inability to reach orgasm, and attachment-related emotional blocks.

The best way to gauge our compatibility is to schedule a 30-min consult to get a feel for my style and answers to questions not addressed here.

If you are uncertain about how to discuss coaching with your partner, please submit an inquiry that explains your situation. I don’t see couples without the consent and full participation of both parties.

I host in-person clients in Oceanside, minutes from Carlsbad, San Marcos, and Vista. If you prefer I come to you for a couple’s workshop or private class, I travel to Orange County and throughout San Diego. (Travel fees apply).

Couple’s sessions and and classes are offered in South Oceanside and Poway, at a wellness center.

I serve clients from all over San Diego including Carlsbad, Cardiff, San Marco, and north San Diego county. San Clemente and Dana Point residents have an easy drive to my studio as well.

Erotic mindfulness is a transformative practice wherein erotic energy is harnassed as a catalyst for increasing self-awareness, releasing trauma, and creating an unconditionally loving and compassionate relationship with oneself as the foundation for healthy sexuality and intimacy.

When practiced solo, erotic mindfulness is a form of sensual self-care and opportunity to meet ourself with curiosity and openness, increase self-awareness, build confidence, and release trauma stuck in the physical and energetic body.

Taking time to nourish ourself sensually is a way to honor our own divinity and connect with our "Jing," the energy that fuels our sexuality, so we may learn how preserve and cultivate it consciously for optimal wellbeing, healthy boundaries, and functional relationships.

When explored with a partner, erotic mindfulness is a tool to build intimacy, trust, and open pathways to pleasure and higher consciousness in an image relationship. Practicing erotic mindfulness teaches us how to give and receive wholeheartedly, listen and communicate effectively, and notice when we dissociate or numb out during sex.

Erotic mindfulness reveals our deepest needs and desires for safety and connection and teaches us how to ask for and receive what allows us to feel safe and empowered in our intimate life.